INTIMACY FOR MEN
OUR SEXUAL FOUNDATION
LETS TALK ABOUT "SEX"
As a man, we like to talk about it, make it sound simple, and from time to time share our achievements. We prefer to call it "sex" so that we do not get emotionally involved when we call it "lovemaking". We usually share the good things but not the uncomfortable ones, in order to not give space for feeling ashame, and when we do so, we like to make it sound like something not as important.
However, in the real emotional world deeper things are going on, with repetition our lack of confidence, frustation, loss of partners' trust, and even the breakdown of our inner male is growing in the shade and one day it will hold on hostage your integrity as a man. You did not listen long enough to what is really important as a man. It is not about the results of your performance but why your perform the way you do.
Understanding sexuality will help you understand and overcome many inner challenges that you might be facing nowadays in your intimacy with your partner. I have walked the path of my sexual discovery, passing through shame, fear, and doubts. It is usually a lonely journey. As a man we like to find solutions by ourselves, however, sometimes sharing and getting support is the solution.
Having someone who already found the solution could ease the process and understand that it is ok to feel confussed, down, and insecure. Let's talk about it, there is no need to keep on suffering and letting your partner frustrate in silence due to fear of complaining about your performance. It is ok to talk about it, if I have done it, you can do too.
SENSUAL
INTIMACY
INTO
THE
FLOW
MERGE
BECOME THE ONE
YOU ARE THE EXPERIENCE
We are the ones who experience sexuality with the intention that initiate each movement during the act of making love to our partner. Often the experience takes over our own perception of control, making the result an unsatisfied outcome where our total desire has not found the space, time, and manner to be fulfilled. Premature, disconnection, low arousal, and many other are only part of the experience that can be changed once you understand how to flow in it.