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Considering Alternatives to Traditional Relationship Models

Are you considering alternatives to traditional relationship models? Whether you're looking for a polyamorous lifestyle or just want to explore something outside the "norm," it's important to keep an open mind and know the potential risks that come with any type of non-traditional relationship. This article will provide an overview of alternative relationship models, including polyamory, solo polyamory, triads, quads, swinging, open relationships, and more. It will also cover ways to think about these different types of relationships to help you decide which one (or ones) might be right for you. Ultimately, only you can decide what works best in your life – but understanding all of your options is key! So read on and get informed so that you can make the best decision for yourself.

*Note: This article focuses primarily on consensual polyamorous relationships, not all other forms of non-traditional relationships.*

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Polyamory is a form of non-monogamous relationship in which two or more people maintain intimate relationships with multiple partners, with the knowledge and consent of all involved. This could include married couples who have agreed to open their relationship up to other partners, or individuals who are exploring relationships with more than one person. Polyamory can also include forms such as threesomes, foursomes (or “quads”), group marriages, and even love triangles.

Solo Polyamory

Solo polyamory is an alternative relationship model that involves engaging in intimate relationships without being part of a primary couple. Solo polys often prioritize autonomy and freedom within their relationships over traditional couples-focused dynamics. These individuals may still want connection and intimacy with partners, but may also prioritize other aspects of life such as work, travel, or self-care.

Triads & Quads

Triads (or "V's") involve three individuals who are all involved in a relationship together. This could be two people who each have an additional partner or three people in a primary relationship with each other. Each person has an equal say and importance in the triad relationship. Quads (or "X's") involve four individuals who are all involved in a relationship together – similar to triads but with an additional partner.


Swinging is another non-traditional type of relationship model that can include couples engaging in sexual activities with other consenting partners. It’s important to note that swinging isn’t just limited to couples – it can also include groups of three or more people.

Open Relationships

Open relationships involve both partners being able to engage in sexual/romantic activities outside the relationship. This could be as simple as allowing each other freedom to have casual encounters or longer-term, committed non-monogamous partnerships. It's important that each partner is honest and open with the other about their activities outside the relationship and establishes clear boundaries around what they are comfortable with.

Non-traditional relationships

Ultimately, there is no one “right” relationship model – everyone should do what works best for them. But by understanding all of your options and doing research into different types of relationships, you can make an informed decision on which path to take. Ultimately, only you can decide what works best for your life – so take the time to make an educated decision. Good luck!

*Note: This article does not constitute medical or mental health advice. If you feel like you need help navigating any of these topics, please consult with a professional in this field.*

If you are considering exploring any of these alternative relationship models, I encourage you to reach out and consult with a professional. I am coaching in non-traditional relationships and can help guide you on your journey. Together, we can explore what works best for your life and create a plan for how to move forward. With my help, you can make an informed decision about which path to take – one that will bring joy, connection, and fulfillment into your life. So don't hesitate to get in touch today – I'm here to help!

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